Thankful Thursday: Last Night

Today I’m thankful…

…for a lovely bike ride, just me a God. We chatted, I surrendered, He granted peace.

“Be anxious for nothing, but in everything through prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God which surpasses all understanding will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.”
~Philippians 4:6-7

…for a nice break at a playground from my childhood. I fondly remember swinging on the swings, walking along the railroad-tie retaining wall, and hopping on my bike for the return trip across the railroad tracks.

…for an “accidental” run in with friends. I dropped by my folks house on my way home from my ride to say “Hi” to my little sister. She had Kayla and Joanna over and invited me to watch a movie with them.

…for a sweet chick flick. Thanks to the long conversation with God on my bike ride, I was able to make it through a chick flick, not once but twice. I haven’t been able to do that (that is, watch a chick flick all the way through) for months.

…for my brother cooking for us. I’d already eaten dinner, but when Timothy offered to prepare Mac’n’Cheese for the girls, I wouldn’t refuse. He served us lemon and strawberry sherbet (bought with his own money) to go along with it.

…for a friend who listens. I’ve been so blessed to have Joanna as a friend. Last night, she listened (yet again) as I shared my laden heart.

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Easily Deceived Eve (Part 2 of 3)

Check out Part 1 of “Easily Deceived Eve”, in which I discuss why God chose to hold Adam, not Eve, responsible for the sin of mankind.

Easily Deceived Eve.

What a moniker. What a shameful blow.

Imagine the worst dumb blond joke you can think of–Eve ups the ante.

“So a serpent walks up to Eve and says, ‘Hey, if you eat this fruit, you’ll be wise like God.’ She looks at the serpent, looks at the fruit, and says ‘You’re right! This is good fruit. So she takes a bite.”

I mean, hello!?! Didn’t anybody ever tell you not to listen to just any old snake-fruit salesman?

But Eve falls for it. She’s one gullible gal.

Yet Scripture seems to suggest that not only Eve but all women are prone to Eve’s naivete.

I Timothy 2:14 gives Eve’s “easily deceived” nature as a reason (apart from the created order of male headship) that women should not teach or have authority over men.

The implication is that a woman, being easily deceived, might unknowingly lead into falsehood if men were under her spiritual authority.

I Corinthians 14 affirms that women are not to teach or have authority over men–but takes it one step further by saying that women should keep silent in the churches, not being permitted to speak.

Of course, one must realize that the “church service” in Corinth looked quite different from ours today–the order of service in which “each of you has a psalm, has a teaching, has a tongue, has a revelation, has an interpretation” would make it very difficult for a woman to speak in church without teaching or having authority over a man.

Regardless, women are encouraged to learn in silence with submission, asking questions of their husbands at home rather than disrupting the service for their questions–or worse yet, than interrupting the service for a misguided teaching.

At various times, I’ve chafed at this command.

In my remarkable humility (Hah!), I recognize that I have a high IQ, a great deal of education, and a natural aptitude for teaching. Why should I not use the gifts God has given me?

My pride (while inexcusable) is not without cause. Many within the church and without have confirmed that I am intelligent, well-read, and highly educated. They agree that I teach with passion and ease. When I teach, people learn. When I explain, they understand.

But God would protect me from what I, in my pride, consider beneath me.

I think I’m too smart to fall for deception. I think that somehow I can escape Eve’s vulnerability. But I cannot.

If Eve, with a mind uncorrupted by sin, as a woman who had experienced unbroken fellowship with God, could be deceived–how much more can I, with my sin-twisted and sleep-deprived mind and my through-a-glass-dimly view of God?

I am Eve, easily deceived.

God knows it–which is why He has placed this protection over me. James 3:1 says that teachers receive a stricter judgment. God would keep me from this stricter judgment by not having me teach or have authority over a man.

God would protect me by placing me under the headship of man (today, as a single woman, under Christ and my father; someday, Lord willing, under Christ and my husband.)

When I do teach–and I do, using my giftings to teach women and youth spiritually and people of all stripes in my secular area of expertise–I teach under the authority of my father, who offers me good counsel and brings correction when I am in error.

As I teach under the authority of my father, I am protected. My father, to whose authority I submit, is held responsible for error that he sees but fails to correct. This guards me against teaching out of deception.

At the same time, since I am teaching those who are also under authority (women and youth), I have an additional protection. These who hear my teaching are under the authority of husbands and fathers who can correct deceptions that I have unknowingly passed along.

God, recognizing in me Eve’s weakness, chose to protect me from myself by restricting my ability to self-destruct. To rebel against His protective structure is not wisdom but madness.

If you haven’t read Part 1 yet, take a look at my thoughts on why God chose to hold Adam, not Eve, responsible for the sin of mankind. And stay tuned for part 3, which should be posted on Friday.


Meet Bubba and Beau

Bubba is the son of Big Bubba and Momma Pearl.

Beau is the puppy of Maurice and Evelyn.

Bubba and Beau are best friends. They both go around on all fours, and both are keen on chewing.

Bubba and Beau books

The Bubba and Beau books, written by Kathi Appelt and illustrated by Arthur Howard, are a hilarious set of tales about a family of Texas rednecks.

Each book boasts a full cast of characters, including Bubba, Big Bubba, Momma Pearl, Beau, Earl (the trusty pickup truck), and a whole host of other folk.

The stories are told in a mixture of Southern colloquialisms and children’s rhyming language. “Bubba and Beau loved its squishy squish. They loved its squishy squash…Sister, that mud hole was better than pickled eggs.” “Yes siree, those relatives caught up till the cows came home.” “Y’all come back now, ya hear?”

Each story tells a tale in a series of [very] short chapters, describing some typical childhood event: kids getting dirty and not wanting a bath, a baby not wanting to sleep until daddy takes him for a car ride, getting primped and kissed when relatives visit, etc.

The stories focus on childhood events, but they’re really probably of more interest to adults than to children. Mommies (or adept babysitters) will laugh at the typical description of a child’s behavior in each situation. Anyone redneck (which, in books, generally means anybody conservative) will smile and nod when Big Bubba tears up at the sight of so many flags on the stamps he buys from the post office. Anybody who knows older men, particularly of the farming variety, will enjoy the “conversation” the men have on the front porch of the Feed and Seed. “Good day to shoot the breeze.” “Yep.” “Yes siree.”

Reading My Library

This is definitely a series worth checking out the next time you’re at your local library. Even if your children don’t entirely appreciate their humor, you’ll undoubtedly get a few giggles out of this fun little set of books.

For more comments on children’s books (counting and otherwise), check out Carrie’s blog Reading My Library, which chronicles her and her children’s trip through the children’s section of their local library.



How I blog (An explanation for the missing book reviews)

Today, Carrie read one of the book reviews I’d linked up to 5 Minutes 4 Books’ “I read it” carnival and commented thus:

“So – do you have two blogs and am I horribly confused? I’m subscribed in Google Reader but I never see these book reviews pop up! What’s with that? Am I blind or something? I’m always surprised when you link up and then I scramble back through and catch up. Is it me?”

No, Carrie, it isn’t you.

It’s a rather nefarious plot of mine to completely befuddle my readers.

Okay. It’s not really that either.

[What follows is the long story–and the short. Feel free to skip ahead to the “short” if you’d rather not read my whole blogging history.]

Long Story

You see, before I switched to using the WordPress blogging platform almost a year ago, I did my entire website by hand. I started with a blank text document in Microsoft’s notepad and ended with a web page, coding the html, css, php, and whatever else I needed as I went.

This was fantastic for building and maintaining my web-authoring skill set, but not so nice for getting daily posts done in a timely manner. So after a year of regular blogging (I’ve had a website since 2001 but have only consistently blogged since April or May 2008), I decided to switch to using WordPress.

I didn’t want to let my skill set decline, though, so I continued building my “static pages” from scratch. I use the “old-fashioned” text-file edited html to create my Bible study, book review, and recipe pages (and use a completely different program to create my photo albums).

Unfortunately, these pages aren’t connected to WordPress’s auto-feeds. I realized this from the outset and tried to solve the problem by continuing my hand-coded RSS feed. The problem with that was that some people were only subscribed to my hand-coded feed–and therefore missed my regular blog posts. It was quite a conundrum. I deleted the hand-coded feed and directed those subscribers over to the blog feed.

But that left me without any way to let my readers know when I posted a new book review, recipe, Bible study, photo album, etc.

Short

In short, because I hand-code my book reviews, they don’t show up on my RSS feed. This is tragic for my readers (and potentially for my blog statistics), but I really want to maintain my html skills.

In order to help readers find the static content I’ve recently added to bekahcubed, I’ve started to post a weekly “Recap”. Recap posts follow a predetermined format, first showcasing any new pages that I’ve added to bekahcubed over the course of the week and then sharing any interesting links I’ve discovered on the web over the same week.

So if you’re looking for new book reviews or recipes (or if you want to see the photographical evidence that I really am real), take a quick scan of the “Recaps” that are posted every Saturday night at 11:59 pm Central time–and click the links to anything that looks interesting.

And there you have it: my nefarious plot to befuddle my readers (and my attempt at a workaround to still engage the most persistent of them all.)