Challenges Ending and Beginning

I wrote at the beginning of the year of my intent to participate in Carrie’s L.M. Montgomery Reading Challenge – and participate I did.

Anne smashing the slate over Gilbert's head

I started the year off with Mariah Marsden and Brianna Thummler’s Anne of Green Gables: A Graphic Novel. I was somewhat unexpectedly delighted with the format – but likely because my familiarity with the original story allowed me to catch little details that I otherwise wouldn’t have understood (pictures not really being my language.)

"Red cordial" with image of Anne and Diana at a tea-table

The kids and I read Kelly Hill’s excellent board books titled Anne’s Colors and Anne’s Numbers, which provided me with a lovely opportunity to introduce the children to some of my favorite Anne-ecdotes (hopefully without spoiling their eventual enjoyment of the real deal.)

Our family watched several episodes of Tales from Avonlea – which made my interested in going back and re-reading The Story Girl and Chronicles of Avonlea and the like, as I don’t remember the books being quite as sensational as the TV series was.

Anne of Avonlea by L.M. Montgomery

And, finally, I read Anne of Avonlea. Amidst the busy of the beginning of a new year, I enjoyed catching up with my old friend Anne, no longer a child but not yet a woman.

Thank you, Carrie, as usual for hosting this challenge this year!

L. M. Montgomery Reading Challenge


And now that January is over and February has begun, it’s time to begin a new challenge – Barbara’s Laura Ingalls Wilder Reading Challenge.

Laura Ingalls Wilder's Fairy Poems

The children and I are eager to participate – we’ve already finished a collection of fairy poems by Laura, as well as started Little House in the Big Woods. We’re planning to read at least one more of the little house books together and to do some activities to go along with it.

Little House, Long Shadow

I, personally, have borrowed Little House, Long Shadow by Anita Clair Fellman from the library. I’ve read the first chapter and am uncertain as to how far I’ll get before the month is up, but I’ve got it on retainer :-)


Pfft…

I’ve been using our exercise ball as my seat at the dining room table since I went into labor with Beth-Ellen (I used it during Christmas Eve lunch while I was in labor!)

It’s been a wonderful chair.

But tonight I sat down and heard a Pfft and a pop.

And then I was on the floor.

And then I was laughing.

My ball, post-Pfft

And then Tirzah Mae was bawling with the shock of it all.

Don’t worry, she’s fine. I’m fine.

The ball is definitely not fine.

A new one is on the way.


Children’s Reading Report (January 2019)

After who-knows-how-many-years of work, I have finally completed author last name “B” at my local library. I’m hoping to pick up the pace a bit and complete all the picture books by author last name “C” this year!

*An asterisk denotes a book that I wouldn’t mind re-reading.


Board Books

Since I’ve already read all the board books at our library (except the ones they’ve acquired since I finished my challenge), I’m reading these simply for pleasure – or ’cause the little ones pick them up when we’re at the library.

"Anne's Colors"

  • Look at Me: I Love My Family
    Pictures of little ones playing with their family along with very spare text. I won’t be getting it again.
  • *Rrralph! by Lois Ehlert
    “Did you know my dog can talk?” the narrator asks. We learn just how in this delightful tale (Ralph says “Ralph”, “Roof”, “Wolf”, “Bark”, and more.) We get this from the library, but I’d love to own a copy – it’s a fun, fun book and Beth-Ellen’s current favorite.
  • Newtonian Physics for Babies by Chris Ferrie
    Not particularly straightforward and the illustrations look like they were made using Microsoft Word’s graphic editor. Not worth it.
  • Anne’s Colors and Anne’s Numbers by Kelly Hill
    Lovely little books illustrating scenes from Anne of Green Gables. See my review for more details (and photos!l)
  • Blankie by Leslie Patricelli
    Patricelli’s little character really, really loves his (her?) blankie.

Picture Books

A typical library return stack

Author Last Name “B”

I had just a few of these sitting around waiting to be read before we could close off the “B”s

  • *Banjo Granny by Sarah Martin Busse and Jacqueline Briggs Martin
    A delightful story about a granny who travels the nation with her banjo to play with her dancing grandbaby.
  • My Bibi Always Remembers by Toni Buzzeo
    A fun little story about a distractable elephant baby and his (or her?) wise grandmother.
  • One Cool Friend by Toni Buzzeo
    In which a boy steals a penguin, just like his father stole a turtle. Weird.
  • R is for Research by Toni Buzzeo
    A big-kid alphabet book centered around a research project. Eh.
  • *The Sea Chest by Toni Buzzeo
    Based on a Maine legend, this tells the story of a baby washed ashore near a lighthouse after a shipwreck. Very sweet.
  • The Power of Henry’s Imagination by Skye Byrne
    New-Agey “imagine it and it will be”. Ick.
  • Dream Friends by You Byum
    A dream friend helps a little girl make a new real friend. I can’t decide whether I’d be willing to reread this or not.

Author Last Name “C”

An informal count says there are about 560 picture books with an author last name “C”. That means I need to read almost 50 a month to get it done in a year – so I need to double this month’s rate for the rest of the year.

  • Bertie and Small and the Brave Sea Journey and
    Bertie and Small and the Fast Bike Ride by Vanessa Cabban

    Gentle stories about a little boy and his stuffed rabbit.
  • Roonie B. Moonie Lost and Alone by Janan Cain
    I’m not a big fan of “stories” that are really just lessons in disguise. This one is about how to manage being lost.
  • *By the Light of the Moon by Sheridan Cain
    A sweet little story in which a mama mouse puts her baby mouse safely to sleep.
  • *Lena’s Shoes are Nervous by Keith Calabrese and Juana Medina
    Lena isn’t nervous about her first day of school – but her shoes are. Clever and cute.
  • *Flood by Mary Calhoun
    A fictionalized retelling of the 1993 flooding along the Mississippi. I remember that rainy, rainy season (although we didn’t experience devastating flooding in Lincoln like those along the Missouri and the Mississippi did.)
  • Hot-Air Henry by Mary Calhoun
    I enjoyed learning how a hot-air balloon works in this story of a Siamese Cat who accidentally takes a solo balloon trip.
  • The Enemy: A Book about Peace by Davide Cali
    I am profoundly ambivalent towards this book. It has some good points: “the enemy” is generally not a monster but another person fighting for what they believe is right. But Cali seems to discount the idea of a just war.
  • A Funny Thing Happened on the Way to School by Davide Cali
    Trippy.
  • Good Morning, Neighbor by Davide Cali
    A group of neighbors pools their resources to make a cake – and then has to decide how to divide it equitably. The best of the books by Cali, but still not amazing.
  • Great Dog by Davide Cali
    It was funny, until we got to the end and it took a desperate twist into “you can be anything you want to be” even if that means being a dog when you were born a cat. No thank you – I’d rather encourage my kids to be what God created them to be.
  • Snow White and the 77 Dwarfs by Davide Cali
    Caring for 77 dwarfs is hard work! Snow White is going to take her chances with the witch’s poison apple (maybe then she can at last get some sleep!) This really isn’t a children’s book as much as it is an illustrated book for complaining mothers.
  • *Jazzmatazz by Stephanie Calmenson
    A rolicking good time ensues when a baby and a variety of animals start a jazz band.
  • Ollie’s Class Trip and
    Ollie’s School Day by Stephanie Calmenson

    These books pose all sorts of ridiculous hypotheticals that children will love saying “No, silly” at. That said, I was glad to take them back to the library.
  • The Teeny Tiny Teacher by Stephanie Calmenson
    How many times can you read the words “teeny tiny” before you pull your hair out? Stephanie Calmenson approaches that number in this book (which is quite clever apart from the exhausting use of “teeny tiny”.)
  • Queenie Farmer Had Fifteen Daughters by Ann-Jeanette Campbell
    This was just weird.
  • I Get So Hungry by Bebe Campbell
    How do you address emotional eating and obesity and weight loss with children? Campbell doesn’t do a bad job per se, but the whole topic makes me queasy given how individualized circumstances are (childhood obesity is a real thing, but so are eating disorders.)
  • *Stompin’ at the Savoy by Bebe Campbell
    A fun little book about a girl who is afraid of dancing at her jazz recital – until she has a crazy dream of dancing at the Savoy!
  • Franklin’s Flying Bookshop and
    Franklin and Luna Go to the Moon by Jen Campbell

    Franklin is a dragon who loves to read and to share books with others – but all the people are afraid of him until he meets a fellow book lover (who also happens to love dragons.) In the sequel, the dragon and his friend go searching for Franklin’s family.
  • *The Mermaid and the Shoe by K.G. Campbell
    Little Minnow is the only unexceptional daughter from among King Tritan’s many exceptional daughters. But then she finds a shoe and goes exploring to find out what it is – and learns that she is exceptional too. I enjoyed this story quite a bit – it’s not simply an “everyone is special” book, but an “everyone is special in different ways” book.
  • Adrian Simcox Does NOT Have a Horseby Marcy Campbell
    Adrian has an imaginary horse and the protagonist must learn to not be so mean about it. Eh. (Lovely illustrations, though, by Corinna Luyken.)
  • Hug Machine by Scott Campbell
    Does the hug machine ever run out of hugs? Okay, but not great

Other picture books:

  • *Yummy by Lucy Cousins
    A fun collection of folk tales loosely themed around food.
  • *The Night Gardener by the Fan Brothers
    A neighborhood is astonished to wake up every morning to a new topiary along their sleep. Fun.
  • *My Love Will Be With You by Laura Krauss Melmed
    A precious, simple father/child book. I especially liked Henri Sorensen’s beautiful (acrylic? oil?) paintings of different animal father/child combos.
  • *Good Night, Good Night Construction Site Sherri Duskey Rinker and Tom Lichtenheld
    As good as promised. My truck-loving Louis wanted to take this to bed with him most nights (and for a majority of naps as well.)

Holiday Books

A typical library checkout

Christmas

Christmas lasts until January 6 and I’m pleased to keep reading Christmas books right up until then :-)

  • *Just Right For Christmas by Birdie Black and Rosalind Beardshaw
    A Christmas book I’ll be checking out again and again – a king buys a bolt of fabric to make his daughter a gift for Christmas, and then a whole set of people and animals use the scraps to make a “just right” gift for their own loved ones.
  • The Animals’ Santa by Jan Brett
    Brett is always a delight. The animals speculate about Santa’s identity – and discover who he is thanks to the ingenuity of a skeptical little one.
  • *The Nutcracker by Valeria DoCampo
    A very nice retelling of the ballet.
  • *The Twelve Days of Christmas in Washington D.C. by Candice Ransom
    A little one (I forget whether it was a girl or a boy) visits his cousin in D.C. and writes letters home to his parents about all the things his cousin showed him in D.C. It’s great fun hearing my kids mash up the traditional version and this version of the song. Tirzah Mae sings “And a partridge in a scarlet oak tree” and Louis loves to sing “Five… doll-ar rings!”
  • *Christmas in the Big Woods by Laura Ingalls Wilder
    Tirzah Mae wanted to get a jump start on Barbara’s Laura Ingalls Wilder reading challenge with this “My First Little House Book”. Of course I let her :-)

Marting Luther King, Jr. Day

I greatly enjoyed learning more about Martin Luther King, Jr. this year

  • Martin Luther King Jr. Day by R.J Bailey
    A very simple book that focuses on kids doing community service vs. on Dr. King’s life or the Civil Rights movement. Not a fan.
  • *Martin Luther King Day by Linda Lowery
    A good review of Dr. King’s life and of how MLK Jr. Day became a national holiday.
  • Martin Luther King, Jr. Day by Dianne M. MacMillan
    A simple chapter book that is nevertheless quite informative.
  • *Martin Luther King Day by Janet McDonnell
    A grandfather tells his granddaughter about the civil rights movement. Very nice.

Groundhog Day

Our library has LOTS of books for Groundhog Day, but very few of them are any good.

  • *A Garden for a Groundhog by Lorna Balian
    Mr. and Mrs. O’Leary are a wee bit frustrated with how the groundhog keeps eating their garden – so they devise a plan. Any vegetable gardener will identify with the O’Leary’s in this clever little book.
  • Go to Sleep, Groundhog! by Judy Cox
    The groundhog can’t fall asleep, so he keeps taking walks only to get trundled back to bed by a holiday figure who rocks him, tells him a story, and gives him food. He finally falls asleep just in time for his alarm to go off for Groundhog Day. He pops out of his hole, sees his shadow, and runs back inside for six more weeks of sleep.
  • Groundhog Stays Up Late by Margery Cuyler
    Foolhardy Groundhog stays up playing instead of preparing for winter – which means he gets awfully hungry. So he plays a trick on his friends to get some of their stored food. But the other animals have the last laugh when they trick him on February second. Eh.
  • Groundhog Day! by Gail Gibbons
    Fairly informative, if somewhat disjointed discussion of Groundhog Day and groundhogs themselves.
  • It’s Groundhog Day! by Steven Kroll
    Roland Raccon wants winter to continue so he can make more money off his ski resort – so he attempts to kidnap Godfrey Groundhog so he can’t predict spring. Eh.
  • Who Will See Their Shadows This Year? by Jerry Pallotta and David Biedrzycki
    All sorts of animals try their shadows, hoping to encourage spring to come early. But they only manage to set off all sorts of weird weather phenomenon.

Nonfiction Books

This week's return pile

Pregnancy and Babies

Tirzah Mae has been pretty obsessed with pregnancy since I was pregnant with Beth-Ellen – and now that we’ve read everything the library has (for children) on the topic, we’re moving along to babies after birth.

  • *9 Months by Courtney Adamo
    A look at what is happening inside (and outside) a woman during her nine months of pregnancy. The best children’s book on the topic that I’ve seen so far (and I’ve read them all, given that I have a pregnancy obsessed little girl.)
  • My Mommy’s Having a Baby by Dori Hillestad Butler
    Fairly informative – but I’m not a fan of the illustrations and there were a couple pages on sex that I wasn’t terribly comfortable with (then again, my four-year-old is probably a bit younger than the target audience).
  • Our Brother Has Down Syndrome by Shelley Cairo (and daughters?)
    A basic introduction to Down Syndrome with lots of pictures of the authoresses and their brother. The main message is that those with Down Syndrome are unique people, just like all of us.
  • The Obstetrician by Lee Jacobs
    What does an obstetrician do? This was a simple, repetitive book that seemed geared toward early independent readers. Daniel thought it terribly boring; I thought it a bit too pro-medicalized birth; Tirzah Mae was heartbroken when I returned it to the library.
  • Multiple Births by Elaine Landau
    Informative book about multiples (focused mostly on quads and quints!) – but tragic throughout. The first chapter details the terribly sad story of a set of Canadian quints in the early 20th century who were taken from their parents and basically turned into zoo animals. The third chapter is all about the trials and risks of higher order multiples and why selective reduction (more accurately called “killing some babies in the womb while leaving some of their siblings alive”) is recommended. I cried many, many times as I read this.
  • Drugs and Birth Defects by Nancy Schniderman and Sue Hurwitz
    Written for teens and clearly designed to scare them away from doing drugs during pregnancy. Definitely from the early nineties (as evidenced by the dated photos, the hardcore scare tactics, and the absence of mention of methamphetamine.)
  • That New Baby by Sara Bonnett Stein
    This book contains large print to read out loud to your children and smaller print to read yourself. It’s intended to open a conversation with kids about a new baby in the home. Like many books about the coming of a new baby, it’s focused on how the older child is going to feel jealous and left out and angry. I’m not a fan of such things (and, from my experience bringing both new babies and older children into our home, I don’t think jealousy and anger has to be a universal.)

Tools and Trucks

These are for Louis, who would sleep with his mallet and his dump truck every night if I’d let him. Instead, he takes the library books to bed with him :-)

  • The Saw and
    The Screwdriver by David and Patricia Armentrout

    Very simple and well-suited for reading to a two-year-old.
  • Concrete Mixers and
    Dump Trucks by Jean Eick

    Terribly boring for me. Terribly interesting for Louis. I’ll survive the toil of reading them for the joy of watching my son delight in reading them :-)
  • *Tools by Taro Miura
    A very simple labeling book, but with beautiful graphics.
  • Does a Woodpecker Use a Hammer? by Harriet Ziefert
    Talking about the “tools” different animals use – and how humans are different from animals because they use complex engineered tools

Other Nonfiction

  • FlyGuy Presents: Castles by Ted Arnold
    FlyGuy, a cartoon fly, gives a tour of castles. Louis liked it. Daniel liked it. I did not.
  • *Who Was Mother Teresa? by Jim Gigliotti
    Informative look at Mother Teresa – I like the “Who Was…” series. I am interested to learn more about Mother Teresa – I hadn’t know that she was a universalist (kinda thought that was incompatible with Catholicism).

Magazines

  • BabyBug: September 2018
  • BabyBug: January 2019
  • Highlights Hello: October 2018
  • Highlights Hello: November 2018
    I enjoy these very simple little magazines for babies and toddlers – this issue was about shapes. These are sturdy little booklets, although easy to lose since they’re so small.
  • Disney Princesses Official Magazine #47
    Gag me with a spoon. But Tirzah Mae ate it up – and now I can mark it read :-)

Our library includes a running tally of our savings from using the library – and it’s always fun to see how quickly these children’s books add up. We’ve saved $2,845.47 so far this year!

Our January library savings


What I Spent/What We Ate (2019.02.01)

What I Spent:

Saturday, January 29

Walmart – $2.09

Somehow, I ran out of mayonnaise. And since I needed to make some more ranch dressing, that would not do at all! I had Daniel pick some up for us.

Tuesday, January 29

Sam’s Club – $79.89

Sam's Club 2019.01.29

Wow! That’s a big one! A combination of instant savings (Honey Nut Cheerios and ranch dressing mix) and needing to pick up some big bulk items (rice and pecans) made this an extraordinarily large trip.

Walmart – $49.18

Walmart Pickup 2019.01.29


Friday, February 2

ALDI – $30.03

Aldi 2019.02.01


That’s $161.19, which is $46.19 over my budget of $115 per week.
So…
Week 1 – $143.28 ($28.28 over)
Week 2 – $144.90 ($29.90 over)
Week 3 – $126.78 ($11.78 over)
Week 4 – $161.19 ($46.19 over)

If I want to catch up next month, I’m going to have to reduce my weekly expenditures to $86 per week. It’ll be exciting to see if I can do it! :-)


What We Ate:

Saturday, January 26
We had friends over and ate crockpot orange chicken over rice with canned pineapple, frozen stir-fry vegetables, and ramen cabbage salad on the side.

Sunday, January 27
Lunch – Caesar chicken sandwiches with leftover ramen cabbage salad and green pepper slices

Supper – Soup supper at church before the member’s meeting

Monday, January 28
Black beans and rice
Black beans and rice with lettuce salad (and our homemade ranch dressing, of course!)

Tuesday, January 29
Leftovers – Great Grams’ Spaghetti, probably with another lettuce salad and some sort of fruit (I really got in a lettuce salad rut this week)

Wednesday, January 30
Pizza and sides
Homemade pizza with carrot-raisin salad and lettuce salad

Pizza in process

Thursday, January 31
Beef taco with beans and sauteed zucchini and onions
Beef tacos with homemade unfried beans and sauteed zucchini and onions

Friday, February 1
We had been hoping to join friends for a monthly semi-potluck dinner – but the little ones have gastroenteritis, so we’ll be staying home and having minestrone instead.


Grown-Up Reading Report (January 2019)

I’m sad that Five Minutes for Books is no longer hosting the monthly “What’s on Your Nightstand?” roundup – but I completely understand, especially given how my own participation has waned in the past several years.

Nevertheless, I have valued these monthly reminders of what I’ve read – and hope to continue them.


Books for Loving:

Our Triune God by Philip Ryken and Michael LeFebvre
Our Triune God by Ryken and LeFabvre
When I determined that I would study the Trinity this year for my own personal spiritual formation, I was a little worried that it would be mostly an academic pursuit and that I would have to work hard to find cause for worship in the doctrine of the Trinity. Ryken and LeFebvre’s little book (114 pages long) was the perfect start to my project, helping me to clearly see the glorious truth of the Trinity and to worship God as a result. Rather than setting out to give some sort of comprehensive analysis of the Trinity, or a historical background on the doctrine, the authors take a main text for each of their four chapters. They exposit each of those texts to help their readers understand the work of the Trinity in salvation, the mysterious doctine of the Trinity, the activity of the Trinity in sanctification, and the work of the Trinity in the fulfillment of the Great Commission. I heartily recommend this book as an introduction to the doctrine and worship of the Triune God.


Books for Growing:

I chose Matt Perman’s Do More Better as my first book for growing this year – but it’s too long to fit into one month. So I read just the first 13 chapters this month and will be finishing up next month.


Books for Knowing:

The Why Axis by Uri Gneezy and John A. List
The Why Axis by Uri Gneezy and John A. List
Why do we do what we do? Plenty of economists try to answer the question – but generally their observational methodology means they can only observe correlations, not causation. Gneezy and List are pioneers in the use of “field experiments” randomized experiments on the unknowing public that attempt to tease out causation. The Why Axis describes several of their experiments into discrimination, the gender gap, getting kids from hard places to graduate high school, raising money for charity, and more. I found this a fascinating book, although perhaps not quite as fascinating as say, Freakanomics (although that may well be because Freakanomics was one of the first “economics for the public” books I ever read.)


Books for Seeing:

Utopia by Thomas More
Utopia by Thomas More
More is clearly an intelligent and witty man – and I enjoyed reading his little fiction. Utopia is made up of four parts – an introductory letter (full of witicisms), a first part that describes the author’s first acquaintance with the man who told him about Utopia, a second part that describes Utopia, and a final letter. I enjoyed the letters best, the first part next, and the actual description of Utopia least. The island of Utopia is a little too… utopian… for my tastes. For a Catholic saint, More shows little awareness of the doctrine of original sin.


Books for Enjoying:

A Common Life by Jan Karon
A Common Life by Jan Karon
I’ve been making slow but delighted progress through Karon’s Mitford books. They are exactly the sort of books suited for a mother (who wants something to read but still needs to sleep at night.) This book goes back in time a bit to learn more about the lead-in to Father Tim and Cynthia’s wedding.

Anne of Green Gables: A Graphic Novel adapted by Mariah Marsden and illustrated by Brenna Thummler
"Anne of Green Gables: A Graphic Novel"
I enjoyed this much more than expected. Follow the title link for my review.

Anne of Avonlea by L.M. Montgomery
Anne of Avonlea by L.M. Montgomery
It’s been far too long since I last read this. It was like visiting an old friend, grown more mature by life’s passage but just as sweet as ever.



Book Review: Anne’s Colors and Anne’s Numbers by Kelly Hill

I am an absolute sucker for embroidered illustrations.

"Anne's Colors"

Not that I knew these books were illustrated in needlework when I requested them from the library to read as part of Carrie’s L.M. Montgomery Reading Challenge.

All I knew was that they were board books based on the Anne books – and that I hadn’t read them yet.

"Anne's Numbers"

Now that I have read them, I want the original needlework from each page framed in my bedroom. They’re great. I’ve flipped through the pages time and time again, wondering if I could trace the designs onto fabric and replicate them. Is that a violation of copyright? Even if I’m just intending to use them in my own home?

It really doesn’t matter because I don’t have time to embroider myself a set of Anne illustrations. But I still wonder.

Someday.

"Pink cheeks" with image of Gilbert pulling Anne's hair

For now, I’m thrilled to be able to use the illustrations to share my favorite Anne-ecdotes with my children (who are as yet much too young for the real thing!)

Tirzah Mae is utterly delighted to hear of an orange-headed girl who smashed her slate over a teasing boy’s head – and of a friend who accidentally made her friend sick by giving her WINE instead of juice!

"Red cordial" with image of Anne and Diana at a tea-table

“Remember the girl who made her friend sick by ACCIDENT?” she’ll ask me. “She wasn’t trying to make her sick, she just accidentally gave her the wrong drink.”

If you can only obtain one, choose Anne’s Colors which illustrates specific stories from Anne of Green Gables. Anne’s Numbers, while charming, consists mostly of Anne in non-specific nature settings.

L. M. Montgomery Reading Challenge


Recipe: The Best Ranch Dressing

When Daniel and I were first married, he affronted my frugality by declaring that he preferred refrigerator case ranch dressing to the off-brand off-the-shelf stuff I had been used to purchasing.

This was an affront because, not only did it cost about three times more, it also had a shorter shelf life (therefore increasing the probability that it would go bad in the fridge before we had a chance to use it all.)

So I began a quest to make a cheaper refrigerator case ranch dressing – that would still not be too much work.

This is what I’ve come up with…

Pour 2.5 cups buttermilk in a 4-cup liquid measuring cup.

Ranch dressing, step 1

Add mayonnaise to make 4 cups (that’d be 1.5 cups if you’re counting).

Ranch dressing, step 2

Add 6 tablespoons of Hidden Valley Ranch dressing mix.

Ranch dressing, step 3

Whisk together until smooth and then pour through a funnel into a 40 oz ketchup bottle. Refrigerate and use as desired.

Ranch dressing, step 4

(Do you struggle to get your ketchup jars clean? Try filling them half full with hot water and shaking up thoroughly immediately after finishing the bottle. Empty the bottle and pour in a little white vinegar to cut the red stuff out. Shake and empty. Shake again with hot soapy water then rinse. Voila!)

The Best Ranch Dressing

  • 2.5 cups buttermilk ($0.80)
  • 1.5 cups mayonnaise ($0.77)
  • 6 Tbsp Hidden Valley Ranch dressing mix ($1.02)
  1. Pour buttermilk into 4-cup liquid measuring cup.
  2. Add mayonnaise to make 4 cups.
  3. Add ranch dressing mix.
  4. Whisk together until smooth and then pour through a funnel into a 40 oz ketchup bottle. Refrigerate and use as desired.

Prices listed are non-sale prices at my cheapest stores (Walmart for the buttermilk and mayo, Sam’s Club for the ranch dressing mix.) Ranch dressing mix frequently is eligible for “Instant Savings” at Sam’s Club, so my usual price is even lower. My entire recipe costs $2.59 for a little over 32 ounce – or $0.08/oz. Marzetti costs $4.98 at Walmart for a 24 ounce jar ($0.21/oz). Great Value brand non-refrigerated dressing (which is vastly inferior in taste) costs $0.06/oz. So I consider this quick recipe to be a real deal!


Lest I Get Cocky

Going from four children to three (in a good way) is a strange experience.

In a life that generally just gets harder and harder (as we add new children and new developmental stages), things suddenly get that much easier.

The kids all fit in one row of the Expedition, allowing me to enjoy the full back for groceries. The number of children is only one more than my number of hands. It’s that much easier to coordinate nap times.

I start to feel like I’m on top of it all, like I’ve got strength in myself to handle anything, like I don’t need anyone.

And then we do weekend respite for a two-month-old on the same weekend Daniel was volunteering for something and we were having people over and have a Sunday night meeting at church.

I’m exhausted.

And I’ve been disabused of any secret thoughts I’d been harboring of my self-sufficiency.

“I need Thee, oh, I need Thee;
Every hour I need Thee;
Oh, bless me now, my Savior!
I come to Thee.”


What I Spent/What We Ate (2019.01.25)

What I Spent:

Tuesday, January 22

Sam’s Club – $18.92

Sam's Club Pickup 2019.01.22

Walmart – $73.74

Walmart Grocery Pickup 2019.01.22


Friday, January 25

ALDI – $34.12

ALDI trip 2019.01.25


That’s $126.78, which is $11.78 over my budget of $115 per week.
So…
Week 1 – $143.28 ($28.28 over)
Week 2 – $144.90 ($29.90 over)
Week 3 – $126.78 ($11.78 over)

This next week will be Week 4 of our winter menu cycle and then we’ll start over – hopefully I have enough in the freezer that I can catch up to my budget then!


What We Ate:

Saturday, January 19
Chicken and Broccoli Gravy over Baked Potato with Grapes
Chicken and broccoli gravy over baked potatoes with grapes on the side.

Sunday, January 20
Oven Beef Stew with Bread and Cheese
Lunch – Oven Beef Stew with cheddar cheese slices and homemade bread

Buffalo Chicken Dip, Lettuce Salad, and Grapefruit
Supper – Buffalo chicken dip with chips, lettuce salad, and grapefruit

Monday, January 21
Loaded Chicken Tortilla Soup
Chicken Tortilla Soup with all the fixings – and chocolate cake with Lazy Daisy topping (for MLK Jr’s birthday!)
Chocolate cake with Lazy Daisy topping for MLK Jr's birthday

Tuesday, January 22
I forgot to take pictures for the rest of the week :-(
Chicken enchiladas with spicy corn and canned pears (I think?)

Wednesday, January 23
My “emergency meal” of fish fillets, french fries, and …some sort of fruit?

Thursday, January 24
Great Grams’ Spaghetti with parmesan and green olives (of course) and canned peaches

Friday, January 25
We’ll be having West Virginia Soup with bread and butter and cheese slices and probably grapes


Unless the Lord

I was in church leadership somehow, so I was supposed to watch the DVD on church growth strategies – but I was also a college student on spring break.

I’d decided to take my spring break at my grandparents’ farm, so I sat on their living room floor and took notes as I watched the DVD on their television.

If I remember right, the basic gist of the DVD was that you needed to identify what your church’s greatest weaknesses were – and bring them up – and then you needed to identify what the new weaknesses were and so on and so forth. Kinda a “you’re only as strong as your weakest link” idea. Or something like that.

Honestly, I don’t really remember much at all from that far ago DVD.

What I do remember is what my grandma said after I was done.

She’d been doing little household tasks in the background while I’d been watching, and had clearly been paying attention.

And she said, “You know, what strikes me is that they didn’t mention prayer at all.”

I recognized the wisdom of her gentle rebuke then – but I realize it much more now that I’ve lived another decade or so.

There are plenty of good strategies out there. There are things we can do to make ourselves better. Things we can do to improve our communication skills or our parenting skills or our connections. There are things we can learn about how to evangelize or study the Bible or create a welcoming environment.

But ultimately, what we do isn’t even half the picture. It’s God who changes hearts – ours and those of the people around us. It’s God who heals relationships. It’s God who saves. It’s God who transforms. It’s God.

Prayer reminds me that all the strategies in the world are useless unless God is in an endeavor.

“Unless the Lord builds the house, those who build it labor in vain. Unless the Lord watches over the city, the watchman stays awake in vain.”

~Psalm 127:1 (ESV)